Day by day, nothing really changes. Yet when you look back, everything seems different.
When I look at my life yesterday, or last week, it’s as though day after day everything is always the same. The same stresses, the same friends, the same problems. But when I look back a year, 2 years, 5 years…Suddenly everything is different.
The friends we thought we would always have, slowly faded from our lives. Things we thought we would always care about seem miniscule and unimportant. Relationships we thought would never die are nothing but memories in the past.
Everyone is so scared of change, good or bad, because it’s different. What I’m learning though is that the people that are worth being in your life, fight to stay there. And the things we are so passionate about will probably change by next year.
I guess what I am trying to say is that…I feel like I fight so hard to keep my life constant when really I need to be more open to change because a year, two years, five years from now hardly anything I think is important now will matter to me as much except the people I love and the memories I make. Change is inevitable, but it doesn’t have to be scary.
